1. Talk
The very first thing to do is talk to the couple. How can you realize a fantasy of sex if the he does not know what you want? Maybe at first you will feel ashamed and afraid, but there's nothing wrong with expressing sexual desire on her own husband. Also ask him to do the same thing, how she wants to sexual activity takes place with you?
2. Open minded
Do not be judgmental if sedikiy weird sexual desire, or you never imagined before. Maybe you never knew, the couple has a few unique sexual desires or fantasies rather strange. Do not immediately think that your husband have the disorder or sexual deviation. Surprise and panic, it is reasonable felt when I heard a little sexual behavior out of the ordinary. But you should feel grateful because it meant the couple had complete confidence in you so that he would discuss his deepest fantasy.
3. Create a Rule
If you and your partner want to try something new in sex routines, should define some rules. It's okay to imagine 'wild', but still pay attention to what you or your spouse are willing and not willing to do. You certainly do not want to make love to comfort the disturbed because he had a sudden movement outside you might think. For that, first discuss what you and he's like, movement or stimulation like what you both want, and so on. This can help strengthen the bond between husband and wife. Also make sure you have some sort of 'signal' that would make him stop doing something that makes ketikap uncomfortable.
4. Know Limits
The desire you may want to satisfy your partner. But if you're really not comfortable with 'breakthroughs' of this new, remember that you have the right to say no. When men and women who love each other to make love, they should feel comfortable and no one feels overwhelmed. May find it easier if you just act as a 'sweet girl' those things which husbands prefer, but it will only make you suffer and eventually lose sexual desire.
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